John Mejia on Photography, Grief & Building Community Through Conversation

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The Purpose Behind Latinx Portraits in Charlotte

John Mejia joins Oui Talk Raw for a thoughtful conversation about creativity, grief, and the role photography can play in helping people feel seen. Born in Colombia, raised in New York, and now based in Charlotte, John has spent years exploring visual storytelling as a way to connect people across experience, identity, and place.
 
After the loss of his wife in 2018, his creative work deepened and found new purpose. That journey led to projects like Coffee with John, a one-on-one conversation series with more than 130 documented entries, Latinx Portraits, a documentary portrait series honoring Charlotte’s Latinx/e community, and Community Through the Lens, a City of Charlotte-supported initiative offering free photography workshops, artist sessions, and a community exhibition.
 
In this episode, Jennifer Busco explores how grief can reshape creative purpose, why representation matters, and what it looks like to create work that invites people into real connection. This is a conversation about healing, storytelling, and community built with intention.

How Photography Became a Language for Connection

John Mejia

John Mejia was born in Colombia and came to the United States at 12, spending the next 17 years in New York City. His earliest memory of art is inviting neighborhood kids to a makeshift slideshow: a single stock photo of the moon, projected with a flashlight. That fascination with art and visual storytelling never left him. John sees art as a way to connect, expand perspectives, and a way to express himself. In that pursuit, drawing, acting, writing, and photography have been lifelong personal hobbies. He has called Charlotte home since 2006.
 
In 2018, the loss of his wife became a turning point — deepening his creative practice and creating a need to connect and find a medium for self-expression. Out of that journey came three projects: Coffee with John, a one-on-one conversation series with over 130 documented entries; Latinx Portraits, a documentary portrait series of Charlotte’s Latinx/e community exhibited in Charlotte, Raleigh, and New York; and Community Through the Lens, a City of Charlotte-supported initiative bringing free photography workshops, artist sessions, and an upcoming community exhibition showcasing his Latinx Portraits series.
 
The thread that binds all of it is the power of art and conversation in building community — to help us heal, and help us see each other.

Key Takeaways

  • Photography can become a powerful tool for empathy and storytelling.
  • Human connection often begins with genuine curiosity.
  • Grief looks different for everyone, and healing has no universal timeline.
  • Simple conversations can profoundly change both people involved.
  • Community is intentionally built one relationship at a time.
  • Authentic portraits reveal stories more than appearances.
  • Creativity doesn’t require perfect timing—it requires taking the first step.
  • Following curiosity often leads to discovering purpose.
  • Art has the ability to challenge stereotypes and celebrate humanity.
  • Every person carries a story worth hearing.

John Mejia on Photography, Community & Healing Through Connection

Photography can preserve a moment, but for photographer and community builder John Mejia, it’s also a way to preserve humanity. In this heartfelt episode of Oui Talk Raw, host Jennifer Busco welcomes John into the rBeatz Radio studio for an honest conversation about art, grief, resilience, and the power of connecting with others.

Jennifer’s naturally intuitive interview style allows the conversation to flow far beyond cameras and portraits. Together they explore the emotional stories behind John’s Latinx portrait project, the healing journey that inspired his “Coffee with John” conversations, and why slowing down to truly see another person may be one of the greatest gifts we can offer.

Photography as a Tool for Human Connection

John shares how photography evolved from a lifelong fascination with art into a meaningful way to celebrate people and challenge stereotypes. His Latinx Portraits project focuses less on perfect images and more on authentic moments, inviting viewers to become curious about the people behind each portrait.

Rather than directing elaborate photo sessions, John prefers natural light, simple conversations, and genuine expressions. His portraits aren’t about perfection—they’re about reminding people that every individual carries a unique story worth seeing.

Seeing People Beyond Labels

One of the recurring themes throughout the conversation is John’s belief that photography can bridge divides. His work encourages viewers to move beyond assumptions and connect with the humanity behind every face, especially within immigrant communities that are often misunderstood.

How Grief Inspired “Coffee with John”

Following the loss of his wife after her battle with cancer, John found healing not through isolation, but through conversation. What began as informal coffee meetups with friends slowly grew into Coffee with John, an ongoing project built around meaningful one-on-one conversations with strangers, friends, artists, and community members.

Jennifer thoughtfully explores how grief changes each person differently while highlighting John’s remarkable openness about loss, resilience, and emotional healing. Rather than offering easy answers, the conversation emphasizes that healing is deeply personal and often begins simply by being present with another person.

The Power of Listening

John explains that each coffee conversation leaves him with new insights—not necessarily about the person sitting across from him, but about life itself. Those experiences later become reflections through his writing, creating another avenue for connection and encouragement.

Creativity, Purpose & Building Community

Throughout the episode, Jennifer repeatedly returns to a central question: What is our purpose?

For John, the answer is surprisingly simple—connection.

Whether through photography, writing, community workshops, grants supporting local artists, or conversations over coffee, every project points back to building relationships. His artistic journey wasn’t driven by chasing a title, but by following curiosity and using creativity as a bridge between people.

Jennifer mirrors that same passion throughout the interview, creating a space where vulnerability feels natural and reminding listeners that following even the smallest creative pull can lead to unexpected opportunities for growth.

Following the Creative Pull

John encourages aspiring artists not to wait for perfect circumstances. Instead, he believes creativity grows through action—taking classes, learning from YouTube, applying for grants, practicing consistently, and allowing each experience to open new doors.

His story serves as a reminder that purpose often reveals itself while we’re already moving.

Memorable Quotes

“I think you’re the hero of your story and you can change that.”

“Connecting, I think.”

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